·	Don’t just focus on your vagina or clitoris but try using the sex aid or sex toy all over your body - you might find an erogenous zone you never knew about before!

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Many partners enjoy either watching or using a sex aid or sex toy with their lover. If your sex partner is reluctant to join in, try giving them a sensual massage with the sex aid or sex toy first to show what it does. Make sure that your partner knows the sex aid or sex toy is not meant to replace him or her but just to make a great sexual adventure even better.

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The more often you use your sex aid or sex toy, the easier you’ll find it to reach orgasm during sex with your partner. As you use your sex aid or sex toy, you’ll grow more accustomed to the triggers it takes to send you over the orgasmic edge and you’ll be able to communicate what works and what doesn’t to your partner.

·	Learn how to enhance sexual stimulation by varying the speed of your vibrating sex aid or vibrating sex toy. Many people just set the dial to high and leave it there. Don’t fall into that trap!

·	Don’t just lie on your bed. Try moving around and see if there’s another position that really makes your sex aid or sex toy ring your bell!

·	If you have a few old vibrators lying around, you can give them new life by wrapping a vibrating cock ring around the vibrator.

·	The secret to having multiple orgasms with your sex aid or sex toy is to ease the pressure against your clitoris when you're near an orgasm. Keep gently moving the sex aid or sex toy but avoid direct contact with your clitoris until you find yourself on the verge of another orgasm.

·	Time your hip movements with your breathing for increased pleasure. After getting the hang of this while using your sex aid or sex toy, starting contracting and releasing your pelvic muscles at the same time.

·	Try a position you've never tried before or, better yet, use your sex aid or sex toy somewhere brand new and daring!